A Discreet Friendship
Hello there, I prefer the honest and up front approach so here we go. I'm a married man and I know that for many, that should be enough to skip to the next ad. Believe me, 20 years ago I would have never been able to understand. If only we could predict the future right? It's actually taken the last 8 years or so to push me to the point of seeking another avenue of suffying needs and or desires. I'm not looking to replace my wife by any means, i'm simply looking for a friend that perhaps is in the same kind of situation. Maybe your spouse is a heavy drinker and or is abusive or is simply not there for you. Do you accept your fate and say "oh well"? I know that when we get married, it is always with the best of intentions. There are always storms to weather, mountains to climb and rivers to cross. Challenges, it goes without saying. There has to be a lot of give and take on both parts to be successful. To me, infidelity is not the cause of divorce it is a result of a dysfunctional marriage. I have tried candle light dinners, bubble baths, buying sexy lingerie, toys, videos, getaways, open communication and even counseling. I'm dumbfounded and yet, I know I only have one shot at life and refuse to sell myself short. I'm a good man and I know what's out there to choose from. I know for a fact that I have far more good qualities than most would expect. I'm not arrogant, chauvinistic, judgemental, conceded or superficial. I have a great sense of humor, am very kind, considerate, treat everyone with respect. I have always found a way to fill every day with and make a point to always strive for the positives in life. To me happiness is not the goal in life, happiness is the journey, it's how you live it. I'm not attracted to someone who is bitter, unmotivated, complains or likes to sit around and play video waiting for something to fall into their laps. You will not find me on a barstool getting a fill of courage or self esteem, I already have it. I am a very confident and secure man who loves to play and have fun. I love to hunt, fish and definately love golfing. I always go out of my way to help others and am very resourceful when it comes to being successful but obviously that ability hasn't been helpful in finding a way to improve my marriage. Sadly and embarrassingly I guess I've just lost interest. Now for the fun part....When it comes to sex I am very open minded and am not shy when it comes to being adventuristic. I know how to be romantic and enjoy taking the time to please my partner. In case it matters, I am an attractive man and am in good shape although I do have a sweet tooth for . I like that one kind that you have to suck and lick for a long time before you get to the good part. Don't remember the name of it but I definitely know what it looks like. :) Anyway, maybe I could be a good friend till you find what you are looking for I don't know but being discreet would be a must which I think you can understand. Hope to hear from you soon and I will reply to all who respond. Thank you much!! There have been a few who have asked me why my ad has been here so long and I thought I would explain.. First of all, for me, it has to be a good fit. If it were just about the sex, that wouldn't be a problem. I have talked to several but the majority of those who respond are from Day, Portland, , Lewiston, Spokane, Pendleton, Ephrata, BC, Boise, Stanwood and Bend. Believe me, I am a very intellectual man who loves good conversation so talking comes easy to me but I will not travel to these places. If you just want to talk, i'm a great listener but if your interested in a discreet friend, please be local or close to the -Cities. When I do find that special friend, I will respectfully remove my ad. Location: Blue Bridge